midlife | Vintage Black

When I'm Ready to Tell You, I Will.

Do you ever feel like sometimes people feel like they can get too familiar with you, way too soon? They ask questions that you haven't...

CAVEAT EMPTOR—-BUBBLE, BUBBLE TOIL & TROUBLE, by Dr. Cynthia King Bolden-Gardner

It’s all good despite the rabbit trails. Traveling is such a joy, but there are some hidden snares of which you MUST be aware. I just...

WHERE DID THE SERVICE (INDUSTRY) GO?! by Bishop Cynthia King Bolden Gardner

People once took pride in their jobs whether it was pumping gas, washing windshields, serving pie with coffee, buffing shoes, styling...

Younger, But Not Wiser

I don't know how many of you are asking yourself some hard questions these days, that wouldn't have even been a thought 20 years ago....

Lie To Me

They say the truth hurts. Does it? We hear the lies everywhere, and we're consumed by them. In the media, on the phone, at work, and in...

Why Can't I Swim?

I love the element of water. I can sit and stare at the ocean for hours. It puts me at peace and now, it's almost a requirement that I...

The Sweet Sound

If you ask me if I heard you, my answer would depend on which side you were speaking to me on. Truth is, I can barely hear out of my left...

My 3 Things

I'm sure you've heard this question, "If you were stranded on an island, what would be the three personal things you would want with...

Ask the Question

Hurricane Zeta has passed, power is back on and now I have some time to think. In my 50s, I ask many more questions than I did 25 years...

Revising 'The List'

Like a lot of other women my age, I'm still trying to navigate my way through this stage called, Midlife. There's a popular notion that...

The Bullies Within

What if your childhood bullies were within your own family clan? Memories of old childhood wounds that you thought had been long locked...

What’s really goin’ on?

I can still remember my high school cheers, can’t you?

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